Just when you though that their was such a thing as true love! In recent attempts to de-mystify what the female thinks about the men they choose to date. I have been trying to figure out my wife for the past 11 years and suddenly two authors has it all figure out! Leave it to researchers to come up with the many reasons women are attracted to men.
In this study it seems that women most of the time prefer taller men and that height does matter to most women. Women want to look up to their man both literally and figuratively. It is, it seems that it is a important ingredient and it also seems that for the most part women say they are not drawn to a level playing field, but in reality the level playing field is for them to be ten feet taller than the man.
My wife is five foot four inches and I am six foot two inches. I always wondered what she saw in me since she always had a funny look on her face. She herself admits that she likes the fact I was tall and that she felt secure.
Now of course my wife says that if you take the time to get beyond the superficial stuff and see someone for who they are, then height doesn't matter at all. Yea right!
However, Men are a bit more honest in that they are always looking first for the superficial stuff in women. And I suppose the three letter word comes to every man's mind some time or another! Recently I watch the program Jon and Kate plus 8.
With this couple height isn’t a factor. Kate seems to be an inch or two taller than Jon and it shows. It seems that Kate was looking for a short man and Jon was it. Jon was the one that she can humiliate and he is the Gomer Pyle type, willing to take abuse.
In one episode the family visits a Toys-R-Us and the couple separates as a suggestion of Kate. Suddenly Kate demands his presents and you can her majesty yelling throughtout the whole store for Jon to come here. Like any good dog he comes wadding his tail like an obedient servant.
Jon of course is most likely kicking himself everyday wondering exactly what did I see in this woman? Jon is well train now! She has him lapping up every word she utters! Jon now just sits their smiling with that glassy eye look and wondering if he’s paying enough for the hit man to take her out! To be honest Kate is a cross between Cruella Deville and Hillary Clinton, and hair that matches the part.
Some men may think that they have miss out when you see a short guy like Jon in a restaurant with Kate who is much a taller. You know that guys in the place are thinking, "What does he do?" Or exactly how does he attract to such a women? It’s not that he is extremely handsome, but he’s is much easier target to control.
Then there is of course the woman who marries older more mature men. Well guys with one foot in the grave and the other in the senor citizen’s home. Taller isn’t the problem, Insurance is!
The facts are women are in control. One bad word from a man limits himself, to the sofa. Tall or not the ultimate control is always in the woman. Learning that when single will save the man from allot of heartache. A fundamental and natural order of the man, is to say: "yes Dear, no excuses Dear!"
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